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By Pam Murray, President, Many Waters Publishing

"Get out there and network!"

Does this phrase bring pictures of running from one event to another, frantically passing out business cards, hoping to make that "magic" contact? If it does, read on. Youíre about to learn how the "masters" network, leveraging each connection into more and more business.

First, letís define business networking. True business networking is "a purposeful approach to meeting and collaborating with others." Look at that definition a little more closely. What do you think the two most important words are: The first one is purposeful. Master networkers have a plan and a purpose. They know that building a powerful network doesnít just happen.

The second most important word is "mutual." Contrary to many beliefs about networking, the Master Networkerís first rule is "give first." True networking benefits everyone involved.

The second rule is: never confuse networking with prospecting. Both are necessary in sales, but they are entirely different activities. Prospecting is the deliberate search for clients. It may result in short or long-term relationships. When building a network, you are striving for long-term, mutual relationships from which all draw benefit.

Those in your network may be clients, but they will impact your ability to draw clients or other benefits.

As a Master Networker, you will first your the foundation. It will take some work up front, but the investment will pay off royally.

Step 1: Get Ready.


So, make your 10-second introduction interesting. Work on it. Practice it. It should sound natural and spontaneous.

Step Two: Get Set


List everyone you know or have ever known. Just write their names. This is your Master List. Anytime you think of someone, add that person to your list.

Next, look again at your top networking goal. Pick four to six people from your Master List that could most impact that goal. These people will form your Critical Core.

What is a pod? Itís a group of three or more people who are a resource to you and to whom you can refer people. For instance, a Realtor may have pods of appraisers, mortgage brokers and title agents. These people all have a good relationship with the Realtor, who knows he can call on the whenever he needs good service for one of his clients. But, think a little further to some other pods this realtor may need. How about some good remodelers, surveyors, or carpet cleaners? In order to be of full value to clients who are listing or purchasing houses, this realtor would want to have a full array of excellent service people to recommend. And, these service people, in turn send clients to the realtor.

Think about the types of people you want in your pods. List them across the top of a sheet of paper. Then from your list of acquaintances, fill in the columns. If you see blanks, you know what types of people you want to add to your network. By developing deep, active stables, you will be able to provide your clients with even better service than you do now, you will draw more clients to yourself, and you will be able to get the work done that you canít or donít want to do yourself.

Prioritize the names remaining on your master list. in terms of how important they are to the achievement of your goals. The top twenty or so will be your Support Core and will be contacted regularly.

Step Three: Go! (Finally.)


Use this Plan to put all your foundation work into action:

The way to introduce your lead tag is to say, "By the way, do you knowÖ."

At many meetings, people have the opportunity to introduce themselves to the group and say something about their business. This is an ideal time to slap a Lead Tag onto a very brief 10-Second Introduction.

Develop many lead tags, so you will always have one appropriate to the situation.

Here are some closing tips that will help you with your networking:

  • Make at least three networking calls a day
  • Give, give, give. Help people as much as you can. You will receive at least a hundred-foldĖnot necessarily from the people to whom you give, but you will receive.
  • Always sit with someone you donít know at an event.
  • Call a colleague and ask what kind of leads theyíre looking for. If they donít faint, theyíll be pleasantly surprised. And, theyíll think of you the next time theyíre handing out leads.
  • At the beginning of each week, write your networking goals and action plan for that week. It will make your networking much more valuable because youíll know exactly why youíre taking each step.
  • Call at least one person on your list you may be nervous about calling. (One of my students tried this and ended up with a coincidental $1,000 sale.)
  • Actively seek new ways to give leads to others
  • Join a networking club.
  • Have fun. Networking is the easiest, most enjoyable way I can think of to build not only a client base, but a support foundation that will see you through good and bad times.

Master Networkers build networks for life. They are able with just a few action to set in motion any goal they wish to attain and, in return, they have the time to help others in their quests. Giving and receiving. Making all lives we touch better. Living abundantly. These are the rewards for taking the time to build a powerful business network.

Would you like to know even more about networking? Pam has written a manual that takes you step-by-step through building your network. In addition, she has recorded a four-cassette tape album. Either product can stand alone or be used together for even more powerful results. Finally, for a quick reference, order her booklet, which lists tip after tip about networking. Click here to learn more.